After putting Alex in a difficult position, Schneider gets tough love from Penelope. Dr. B consults Lydia’s bouquet list for “non-iversary” gift ideas.

At her ex’s wedding, Penelope experiences a surreal conversation. Elena finds she has more she needs to say to her father. Dr. B gives Lydia her gift.

At a relative’s funeral, Penelope urges Lydia to end a petty feud with her sister, and Elena wonders if her cousin Pilar is gay.

When Penelope discovers Alex’s secret Instagram account, his crass posts spark an intense family discussion about consent and harassment.

A medical emergency brings bedside visits, admissions of regret, moments of realization, declarations of love and and out-of-body experience.

To teach Alex the value of a dollar, Penelope forces him to take a summer job at her workplace. Meanwhile, Elena finds a way to get paid for her hobby.

Lydia learns that Dr. Berkowitz is going to the opera without her. When Schneider asks if she and Max are exclusive, Penelope realizes it’s time for a talk.

Penelope recalls Elena’s birth in 2001, and how an unexpected turn of events drastically changed the life plans she and her husband had made.

Feeling like she’s finally got her life together, Penelope unwisely stops taking her antidepressants so she doesn’t have to tell Max she’s on them.

As Schneider’s trainee, Elena learns there’s more to being a building super than fixing things. Penelope battles Lydia over space in their garage.

At the kids’ school dance, Elena tries to appear popular in front of Syd, and chaperones Penelope and Max reach a milestone in their relationship.

Lydia and Schneider take their U.S. citizenship tests. Penelope wonders if she’d be willing to have another child to fulfill Max’s wish to be a dad.

When juggling family, work and college proves too much for Penelope, Schneider offers her a way to sharpen her focus and improve her test grades.

Lydia gives Elena advice on approaching her crush. After running into a hunky Army buddy who’s also single, Penelope rethinks her dating rules.

Elena is horrified to learn that her grandmother doesn’t vote. Penelope teaches her son all her tricks on how to save money at the movie theater.

Penelope’s furtive date at home with Max is interrupted when a neighborhood lockdown brings the rest of the family back early.

Penelope worries about changes she sees in Alex, who gets into trouble at school. Elena wonders if others are misidentifying her based on her appearance.

When Lydia disappears after a heated argument with her daughter about religion, the smooth running of the household falls apart in her absence.

Penelope suddenly finds herself back in the dating game after Schneider shows her how to use an online app for meeting people.

Lydia grows suspicious of Elena and Carmen’s intense relationship. Penelope later discovers that the inseparable friends are keeping a big secret.

When Penelope’s faithful car finally breaks down for good and she’s forced to trade it in, she meets a kindred spirit in the unlikeliest of places.

While navigating her way through an endless maze of red tape with Veterans Affairs to make a medical appointment, Penelope reaches her breaking point.

Penelope tells her family she has a date and Lydia says she’s going to church, but each secretly goes elsewhere. Meanwhile, Elena tests an attraction.

Elena gets a congratulatory letter that leaves a bitter taste in her mouth. For a school project, Alex interviews Lydia, who reveals a family secret.